How to improve personality and attitude

How to improve personality and attitude

Personality is like a charioteer with two headstrong horses, each wanting to go in different directions. – Martin Luther King, Jr.

Our personalities and values play a large role in our attitudes as well. Our attitudes are favourable or unfavourable opinions towards people, things or situations.

Today we will discuss how can we improve our personalities and attitude 

Personality improvement:

Learn social skills. People with good personality are likeable.

Sometimes we want to change our personality because we have trouble interacting with people. Asking for feedback from people around you can help a lot. You can ask your husband or close friend what deficiencies they find in your personality or behaviour and then you can work on improving them.

I think this is the fastest and easiest way to realise the deficiencies and work on them. It will also help you realise good things about your personality so you can amplify them.

Smiling face:: A smile on your face will attract people towards you and they will be comfortable interacting with you. You, yourself, will feel cool and calm which will reflect on your personality.

Develop a dressing sense: You must have heard” looking good is feeling good”. So to improve your personality from the outside is also very important. Wear outfits that are appropriate for the occasion. Care about your shoes. Make sure you have the right fit and do not shy away from colourful clothes.

Be confident but humble: Always keep in mind that  “my value does not reduce the value of others”.

Be a good listener: Everyone needs someone who can listen to them. If you listen to others carefully they will automatically start liking you.

Be yourself: You were not born to please everyone on this earth. Start taking care of yourself. Eat right, exercise and use products to maintain good hair and skin.

Stay happy and help others: Staying happy keeps you healthy. Mental health is of utmost importance. Life has its own challenges, but if you are happy and strong from the inside to face the challenges you will easily pass through that phase. Help people around you which will make you feel satisfied and happy.

“Life hitting hard is not a problem. The problem would be if you have the attitude of not taking it on appropriately.

 Attitude improvement

Learning how to tap into the positive side of your emotions and outlook on life starts with developing some simple habits. The more of these you incorporate into your own life on a daily basis, the more positive your attitude will be.

Always define small goals: People with a positive attitude have a point of view of what they want to do in their personal or professional life. Setting small goals makes working towards those goals more predictable and fun. Once you achieve those mini-goals, it boosts your confidence which in turn progressively improves your positivity which further continues to reinforce the positive attitude. Even when you don’t achieve some of those small goals, given you are achieving several other small goals, you are still in a state of progress, learning, and positivity.

Being creative: When there is a problem try to look for a solution and keep your brain energy active. Possibilities will come and when you solve the problem you will boost your energy and attitude personally as well as professionally.

Be positive: It is easy to feel dragged down after facing a few failures through people or things in life. But you can keep a list of your abilities that make you feel proud of yourself and review it often. Being positive and having a bounce-back attitude will give you the ability to improve your attitude more easily when it’s needed.

Choose friends who have a positive attitude; It is very hard to be positive if you have negative people around you. I agree that you can’t choose who you have to work with but you can definitely choose your friends.

Thank God for everything you have and count your blessings. Being content and satisfied in life leads to a positive attitude while envying others only brings negativity.

Celebrate life and achievements: Celebrating your personal or professional achievements can also boost your positive attitude. Take some time out to feel good.

However, incorporating all these traits and habits in your life can take some time but ultimately you will emerge as a strong and likeable person.

So my last two-cents: Don’t ever link your happiness with how much you are able to please others; in that case, you’ll never be happy! Do good work that people in your life feel blessed that they have you in their life. Being bold is not the only thing required to take bold decisions, one needs to have patience too.

In closing, and on a lighter vein, those who read my “What women want” and “What men want” posts, any views on which of these tips are you willing to share with your better halves for them to improve upon!!?? 😍😛

None of the blogs or opinions expressed within is meant as advice to you or anybody else on any matter, including but not limited to, personal finance, health, or other matters of life. If you need advice, speak to a professional!

Published by Anita Vij

A caring mother of 2. A loving wife. An aspiring individual who wishes to share her life-long learnings with the rest of the world.

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