Category Archives: Relationships

Do you want a long term relationship?               The behaviour of successful long term partners We are living in a time where everything in our life is unpredictable. If we look  20 years back, it was much better and most of us were at peace with our lives. On the contrary, today we are living inContinue reading “Keepers of life”

Are Indian MEN Mama’s boys? Are Indian men mamma’s boys? I honestly don’t believe this TAG is right for the boys who love and care for their mothers. Our culture is far different from a western culture where kids just leave their homes as soon as they become adults. I am not saying that theirContinue reading “Are Indian MEN Mama’s Boys?”

Mind Over Matter If You Don’t Mind It Doesn’t Matter The age gap between couples- does it really matter The old rule of determining a socially acceptable age difference in partners goes something like this: half of your age plus seven(40=20+7=27). However if the older partner is 40 years old, the other partner should beContinue reading “Mind Over Matter”

“I want a committed relationship, but I am afraid that I may get hurt.”  ” Do you have commitment phobia”?  We have heard this phrase many times in our life. What does it mean when someone has commitment phobia?  To understand this, first we have to understand the meaning of commitment. The definition of aContinue reading “Commitment phobia”

HOW TO STAY CLOSE AND STILL LOVE In today’s scenario, this topic is relevant for almost everyone who has matured children. To understand the need of the hour we shouldn’t refrain from this topic that all of us have to find detachment in the attachment within our families. The problem: when adult children begin standingContinue reading “MATURE KIDS AND PARENTING”

COMPANIONSHIP ISSUES As we are now following a modern-day society and becoming more mature in our everyday lives, I think daily life challenges are increasing and relationships are getting affected very badly. Mainly I would like to discuss husband-wife relationships which are the most heavily impacted ones. As expectations are high from both sides, complicationsContinue reading “HOW TO STAY MARRIED”

Don’t call me Auntie, please The announcement of Kamala Harris as Joe Biden’s vice -presidential running mate has led to the resurfacing of a video from last year, showing Harris cooking masala dosa and reminiscing about her childhood growing up with an Indian mother and Jamaican father. In the video, Mindy Kaling ponders how toContinue reading “Don’t call me Auntie, please”

A few points to remember to save your marriage😇  I know the topic may make you wonder! But it is indeed taking a toll on the married life of a few people. Living so many years with your spouse was easier than it is now. The reason is he (or both of you) was outContinue reading “Are you working from home?”

I was watching “The One “on Netflix the other day. ‘The One‘ weaves an enticing idea – what would happen if everyone could be romantically paired with their perfect match by DNA? This is a show on the increasing powers of algorithms to determine our lives.  ‘The One’ works backwards from the fabulously wealthy founderContinue reading “Redefining love and soul connections with technology”

Sometimes I wonder, what is the objective of life? Why we are here on this planet? Who decides the fate of everyone who comes to life on this earth and one day gets expired. What has someone done to live a king’s life and others are struggling for little needs in their life?  Is itContinue reading “Giving meaning to the life”

Former California Senator Kamala Harris is making history. She is the first woman of color to serve as vice president of America. A former prosecutor and groundbreaking attorney general in California, Harris broke barriers throughout her carrier. There is no dearth of women who are making their countries proud. Be it Jacinda Ardon- Prime MinisterContinue reading “What Women Want”

Whose fault is it anyway? After a few years of marriage” blame” and “claim” creeps into the relationship of couples. Many years of courtship before marriage gets failed to keep the relationship alive. Sometimes both are not happy in the marriage and start blaming the spouse for everything which goes wrong. Now it can beContinue reading “Mr Blame and Mrs Claim”

As the popular German tongue-in-cheek song by Herbert Grönemeyer goes: “When is a man a man?” Men’s role in society is transforming and their social dominance is under threat; women no longer accept less pay for doing the same job as a man and demand representation in the upper echelons of politics and the economy.Continue reading “What Do Men Want”

Are kids growing up without social skills? Almost every parent is worried about the exposure to technology their kids are having nowadays. When they are toddlers, parents don’t pay much attention. As toddlers, they get used to play on papa’s i pad or phone for hours. Watching cartoons or similar things on phone, for manyContinue reading “Serious side effects of technology on teenagers”

Did you even know what is gaslighting?  The term has been everywhere since Donald Trump’s inauguration, so much so that the Oxford Dictionaries named it one of the most popular words of 2018: gaslighting In simple words, the phrase “to gaslight” means to the act of undermining another person’s ability by denying reality and theirContinue reading “Are you a victim of gaslighting?”

When a relationship ends, there usually comes a time when you question your decision. You ask yourself, “should I have given it another try?” A tweet was circulating on meme pages recently that said, “if you’re not dating to marry, you’re dating to break up. Let that sink in.”  If we are not intending toContinue reading “IS GETTING BACK TO AN EX RIGHT OR WRONG”

A Tribute to My Beloved Father  I want to share something that really inspired me and completely changed my mindset during these recent corona times. This story reminded me that we are built stronger than we think we are. We just must find strength in ourselves.  When the quarantine first started, I must say thatContinue reading “The Road to Success Is Paved with Hardships”

How to cope with the situation when things change suddenly Coping with adult children was never easy. In fact, parenting is more difficult when they are adults.  Parent’s hearts and minds are always involved in their children no matter how old they are. But staying with them is a different challenge altogether.😇 A Pew ResearchContinue reading “Living with adult children”

Keys to a successful marriage Marriage, the lasting relationship made by God, has been abused in the present generations. The excessive rate of divorce around the globe has been worrisome. In order to reduce the rate of divorce and ensure a better society, a few points should be considered important. COMPANIONSHIP ISSUES As we areContinue reading “How to sustain love in marriage”