What Women Want

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Former California Senator Kamala Harris is making history. She is the first woman of color to serve as vice president of America. A former prosecutor and groundbreaking attorney general in California, Harris broke barriers throughout her carrier.

There is no dearth of women who are making their countries proud. Be it Jacinda Ardon- Prime Minister of New Zealand, Tsai Ing-Wen-President of Taiwan, Angela Merkel-chancellor of Germany, Nirmala Sitaraman- Finance minister of India are a few examples of women leadership.

Keeping in mind all the success these women have achieved in their careers; I am prompted to think about what women want today? A normal woman if not a celebrity or politician. There are so many aspects of life where every woman can be different about what she wants. 

So many times, we have heard men joking about women like “no-one can understand women and what they want”. It is a very complicated topic indeed for all the men on this planet. They can spend their whole life with a woman and still fail to understand what she wants? What can be done to make her happy?

Don’t get upset guys as today I will try to share a perspective on “what women want“ from a woman’s vantage point. Hope some of these tips can answer a question or two that you have been wondering about or even gave up on and finally resorted to live with it.😄

A few points which needs your attention:

If “she “finds you really attractive then she might be checking you out, but she‘ll turn away the moment you look back. Yes, she wants to talk to you but it’s you who has to start the conversation.

She likes surprises. But make sure not to give a hint of what are you planning if you don’t want to get killed. 😇

Random expression of love in the middle of the day is always welcome.

She knows that you are not listening to her and you were just staring anywhere else when she was talking.

Beware of her mood swings which can change 26 times a day.

Most of the times when she says NO…consider it YES or at least be patient to find out what’s in her mind.

Don’t dare to talk about her weight or beauty otherwise, it’s you who will be responsible for that blast.

Always allow her to shop as much as she wants and keep dinner dates with her intact.😜

Don’t fret if she can’t find a dress for a dinner date despite a full wardrobe of clothes.

 I think this is enough for you guys to understand your female counterparts. 

Now we should talk about some facts.

Some people say that a woman’s mind is like a needle in the sea, and they are unable to understand her. But in fact, people who really understand woman deeply understand that woman wants very little, nothing more than a beloved, supporting companion until both grow old.

Women need to be loved, cherished, and adored. Women need you to listen, actually listen and be sympathetic towards them in times of need. Women want love, financial security, children, a home, and a family.

Let them grow in their careers. Move on with the modern times.

 Women want to make decisions of their life themselves.

So, the secret to keeping women happy is to let her make decisions of her life on her own. In our society, a woman does what she is told to do. Her parents, in-laws or husband decide what she has to do. If you allow your woman to make decisions on her own, then life would be beautiful. Be emotionally connected with her. Respect her and she will respect you back with loyalty deeper than oceans.

Thanks for reading.  Coming up next…What Do Men Want

None of the blogs or opinions expressed within is meant as advice to you or anybody else on any matter, including but not limited to, personal finance, health, or other matters of life. If you need advice, speak to a professional!

Published by Anita Vij

A caring mother of 2. A loving wife. An aspiring individual who wishes to share her life-long learnings with the rest of the world.

9 thoughts on “What Women Want

  1. Empowering women will make the world stronger. The name you mentioned is a true inspiration. But there are many unsung heroes also who have contributed to the world silently like SINDHUTAI SAPKAL, CLAIRE WINLAND, NADIA, and many more I have to cover their stories on my blogs.
    Thank you very much.

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  2. Tout en un. Genre : Premier Ministre. Tout gérer, chaque minute, heure, jour. Etc. Cela peut se résumer à cela !

    Bravo pour ce blog bien mené. Nous savons toutes et tous : le travail que cela demande voire réclame. Congratulations !


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